I start at my new job tomorrow at Michaels craft store.
I had been doing landscaping for a number of years and when my wife and I bought our house, I found a new place to work so I didnt have to commute every day. I found a place close to home, making a little more than I had at my last place of enmployment and for a while everything was awesome. Then they had me start working a little bit of overtime here and there which was fine with me, more moolah! But then, here and there turned into 20-30 hours of overtime a week. Now those of you who have had labor intensive construction type jobs know that 40 hours a week can wear a person out, lemme tell you, a 70 hour week will kill.
Because of the overtime, my wife and I barely saw each other as she is the type of person who likes to go to bed at 9:30-10:00 if she can. It also turned the usually fun aspects of trying to make a baby, into something that was more of a chore. Thats when we could even find the time!
The friday morning before Memorial Day weekend I was greeted at work with the information that I had to come in on Saturday. HAD TO. I was told the day before. I had no time to change the plans that I had already made for that weekend and I was totally pissed that they didnt tell me sooner.
So that day, Friday, I was sent out to this job and was supposed to meet my boss at 8:00 for him to show myself and one other guy what to do. We waited and waited for him. For an hour and a half. He showed up at 9:30 to show us what he wanted done. He basically wasted an hour and a half of mine and the other guys time. So he starts showing us what he needs done. Long story short, the work he wanted done was way more than 2 guys could handle. Finally, he leaves and we get to work. By 2:30 we realize that we arent going to get everything done by 6:00 which is when we were supposed to be done. So I call my boss and he says dont come home till its done. So we said "fnck it" and started working very half-assed. We finished by 5:30 and man did we do some shoddy work. I didnt care, I wanted to go home and on top of that I was furious that he would send 2 guys to do what should have taken 3 guys an entire day to do (correctly).
Anyway, we get back at 6:30 (Memorial Day traffic on the parkway easy in Pittsburgh is horrible) and the other guy leaves. As I go to punch out my boss pulls me aside and tells me that he needs me to go mow 2 lawns and then deliver 3 seperate loads of bark to customers. At that point I had just worked an 11 and 1/2 hour day. On top of that, there were other workers who had already left who could have done one of those two things they asked me to do.
Cut to the quick, I quit. I walked out and told him I wouldnt be back. It was at that moment that I realized that I cant do this kind of work for the rest of my life.
So tomorrow I start at Michaels and have been in contact with Slippery Rock University to find out what it will take to get into their PREE (Parks, Recreational and Enviromental Education) program.
I'mma be a park ranger!
Hopefully soon though I can be a part time worker/part time stay at home dad. Honestly, thats the only thing I want to do right now is raise children. Everything else I do is really just steps taken so that I can do that.
Edited by asator, 16 June 2008 - 08:19 PM.